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PRETENTIONS see: "VANITY" see "DECEPTION" for other related links Affectation proceeds from one of these two causes, vanity or hypocrisy; for as vanity puts us on affecting false characters, in order to purchase applause; so hypocrisy sets us on an endeavor to avoid censure, by concealing our vices under an appearance of their opposite virtues. --Henry Fielding (17071754) English novelist and dramatist. _The Adventures of Joseph Andrews_ [1742] "Author's Preface" We all wear some disguise, make some professions, use some artifice, to set ourselves off as being better than we are; and yet it is not denied that we have some good intentions and praiseworthy qualities at bottom. --William Hazlitt (17781830) English essayist. _Sketches and Essays_ [1839], "On Cant and Hypocrisy" Put silk on a goat, and it's still a goat. --Irish Proverb Almost every man wastes part of his life in attempts to display qualities which he does not possess, and to gain applause which he cannot keep. --Samuel Johnson (17091784) English poet, critic, and lexicographer. _The Rambler_ (English twice-weekly journal 17501752), #189 It is in vain that we get upon stilts, for once on them, it is still with our legs that we must walk. And on the highest throne in the world we are still sitting on our own ass. --Michel Eyquem de Montaigne (15331592) French moralist and essayist. _Essais_ (Essays) {94 chapters written 15711580 & published 1580; the last 13 chapters were written 15851587 & published 1588 }. "Of Experience" Those who wish to appear wise among fools, among the wise appear foolish. --Quintilian (c. 35100) Roman rhetorician. _De Institution Oratoria_ No one shows himself as he is, but wears his mask and plays his part. Indeed, the whole of our social arrangements may be likened to a perpetual comedy; and this is why a man who is worth anything finds society so insipid, while a blockhead is quite at home in it. --Arthur Schopenhauer (17881860) German philosopher. _Studies in Pessimism_ [1851] It's a naοve domestic Burgundy without any breeding, but I think you'll be amused by its presumption. --James Thurber (18941961) Caption for _New Yorker_ cartoon [27 March 1937]. To act with common sense according to the moment, is the best wisdom I know; and the best philosophy is to do one's duties, take the world as it comes, submit respectfully to one's lot; bless the goodness that has given us so much happiness with it, whatever it is; and despise affectation. --Horace Walpole (17171797) English writer and connoisseur. ----- ostentation [os-ten-TAY-shuhn], noun: Excessive or pretentious display; boastful showiness. Ex.: The Puritan leadership was especially distressed by the sartorial ostentation of the lower classes, who were supposed to content themselves with 'raiment suitable to the order in which God's providence has placed them.' --Patricia O'Toole, _Money & Morals in America: A History _ pretentious (adj.) [pri-'ten-shuh s] Full of pretense; that is, ostentatious, assuming dignity or importance. tarradiddle, noun: 1. A petty falsehood; a fib. 2. Pretentious nonsense. ![]() ![]() PRIDE . . see "EMOTIONS & FEELINGS" for related links - The prouder a man is, the more he thinks he deserves; and the more he thinks he deserves, the less he really does deserve. --Henry Ward Beecher (18131887) American Congregational minister; brother of Harriet Beecher Stowe, son of Lyman Beecher. _Royal Truths_ [1866] A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves. --Henry Ward Beecher (18131887) American Congregational minister; brother of Harriet Beecher Stowe, son of Lyman Beecher. In Henry Ward Beecher and Edna Dean Proctor, _Life Thoughts: Gathered From the Extemporaneous Discourses of Henry Ward Beecher_, p. 115 [1858]. - Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. --Bible "Proverbs" 16:18 One ov the best temporary cures for pride and affektashun that i have ever seen tried iz sea sickness; a man who wants tew vomit never puts on airs. --Josh Billings [Henry Wheeler Shaw] (18181885) American humorist. _Josh Billings' Wit and Humor_ [1874] "Ods and Ens" We mortals, men and women, devour many a disappointment between breakfast and dinner-time; keep back the tears and look a little pale about the lips, and in answer to inquiries say, "Oh, nothing!" Pride helps us; and pride is not a bad thing when it only urges us to hide our own hurts not to hurt others. --George Eliot [Mary Ann Evans] (18191880) English novelist. In reality, there is, perhaps, no one of our natural passions so hard to subdue as pride. Disguise it, struggle with it, beat it down, stifle it, mortify it as much as one pleases, it is still alive, and will every now and then peep out and show itself; you will see it, perhaps, often in this history; for, even if I could conceive that I had completely overcome it, I should probably be proud of my humility. --Benjamin Franklin (17061790) American politician, inventor, and scientist. _Autobiography_, ch. 9 [1798] When a proud Man hears another praised, he thinks himself injured. --Thomas Fuller (16541734) English writer and physician. Comp., _Gnomologia: Adages and Proverbs_ [1732] Be humble, learn thyself to scan; Know, pride was never made for man. --John Gay (16851732) English poet and dramatist. "The Man and the Flea" My family pride is something inconceivable. I can't help it. I was born sneering. --W. S. Gilbert (18361911) English writer of comic and satirical verse. _The Mikado_, act I [1885] Nationalist pride, like other variants of pride, can be a substitute for self-respect. --Eric Hoffer (19021983) American longshoreman, philosopher, and author who received the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 1982. _The Passionate State of Mind: And Other Aphorisms_ [1954], Aphorism 38. - Nature . . . endowed us with pride to spare us the pain of knowing our imperfections. --Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (16131680) French classical author. _Maxims_, 36, [1665], tr. Louis Kronenberger [1959] Pride . . . is never so well disguised and able to take people in as when masquerading as humility. --Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (16131680) French classical author. _Maxims_, 254, [1665], tr. Leonard Tancock [1959] There are various sorts of curiosity; one is from interest, which makes us desire to know what may be useful to us; another is from pride, and arises from a desire of knowing what others are ignorant of. --Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (16131680) French classical author. _Maxims_ [1665] - I pointed out a moment ago that the more pride one had, the more one disliked pride in others. In fact, if you want to find out how proud you are, the easiest way is to ask yourself, "How much do I dislike it when other people snub me, or refuse to take any notice of me, or shove their oar in, or patronize me, or show off?" The point is that each person's pride is in competition with every one else's pride. It is because I wanted to be the big noise at the party that I am so annoyed at someone else being the big noise. [...] Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. --C.S. [Clive Staples] Lewis (18981963) British scholar and novelist. _Mere Christianity_, bk. 3, ch. 8 [1952] One may be humble out of pride. --Michel Eyquem de Montaigne (15331592) French moralist and essayist. _Essais_ (Essays) [pub. 15801588] "Of Presumption" The devil, proud spirit, cannot endure to be mocked. --Thomas Moore (17791852) Irish poet, satirist, composer, and musician. 'I have done that,' says my memory. 'I cannot have done that' says my pride, and remains adamant. At last memory yields. --Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (18441900) German classical scholar, philosopher, and critic of culture. _Beyond Good and Evil_ [1885-1886], tr. William Kaufmann [1966]. Would the boy you were be proud of the man you are? --Laurence J. Peter (19191990) Canadian teacher and author. Pride is therefore pleasure arising from a man's thinking too highly of himself. --Benedict de Spinoza (16321677) Dutch-Jewish philosopher, the foremost exponent of 17th century Rationalism. _Ethics_ [1677] pt. III ----- hubris [HYOO-bruhs], noun: Overbearing pride or presumption. vainglory [VAYN-glor-ee; vayn-GLOR-ee], noun: 1. Excessive pride in one's achievements, abilities, qualities, etc. 2. Vain display. ![]() . . see "CHARACTER" for related links It is always easier to fight for one's principles than to live up to them. --Alfred Adler (18701937) Austrian psychologist. In Phyllis Bottome _Alfred Adler: Apostle of Freedom_ [1939]. I am a man of fixed and unbending principles, the first of which is to be flexible at all times. --Everett McKinley Dirksen (18961959) American congressman and senator. In Mardy Grothe _Oxymoronica_, p. 27 [2004]. Whenever two good people argue over principles, they are both right. --attributed to Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach (18301916) Austrian writer. Those who stand for nothing fall for anything. --Alex Hamilton (b. 1936) British writer and broadcaster. "Born Old" (radio broadcast), quoted in "Listener" [9 November 1978]. When a fellow says, 'It hain't the money, but the principle o' the thing,' it's th' money. --Frank McKinney (Kin) Hubbard (18681930) American humorist. _Abe Martin: Hoss Sense and Nonsense_ [1926] - In matter of principle, stand like a rock; in matters of taste, swim with the current. --Thomas Jefferson (17431826) American statesman and president [18011809]. Every honest man will suppose honest acts to flow from honest principles, and the rogues may rail without intermission. --Thomas Jefferson (17431826) American statesman and president [18011809]. In a letter to Benjamin Rush [20 December 1801]. - The probability that we may fail in the struggle ought not to deter us from the support of a cause we believe to be just. --Abraham Lincoln (18091865) American Republican statesman, President [18611865]. It is never right to compromise with dishonesty. --Henry Cabot Lodge, Jr. (19021985) American senator and diplomat. In a 1952 conversation with Republican leaders, quoted in Richard Norton Smith _Thomas E. Dewey and His Times_ [1982]. Give us clear vision, that we may know where to stand and what to stand for because unless we stand for something, we shall fall for anything. --Peter Marshall (19021949) Clergyman, author, and Senate chaplain. In a Senate prayer [1947]. A thing moderately good is not so good as it ought to be. Moderation in temper is always a virtue, but moderation in principle is always a vice. --Thomas Paine [spelled Pane prior to 1774] (17371809) English-American writer and political pamphleteer. _The Rights of Man_ [1792], pt. II, ch. 5 One, with God, is always a majority, but many a martyr has been burned at the stake while the votes were being counted. --Thomas Brackett Reed (18391902) American lawyer and politician. In a speech in the House of Representatives [1885]. There is nothing so bad or good that you will not find an Englishman doing it; but you will never find an Englishman in the wrong. He does everything on principle. He fights you on patriotic principles; he robs you on business principles; he enslaves you on imperial principles. --George Bernard Shaw (18561950) Irish comic dramatist, literary critic, Socialist propagandist, and winner of the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1925 [he didn't accept it.] _The Man of Destiny_ [1898] It is often easier to fight for principles than to live up to them. --Adlai E. Stevenson (19001965) American Democratic politician. "The Nature of Patriotism", speech in New York City [27 August 1952]. - If you mean whiskey, the devil's brew, the poison scourge, the bloody monster that defiles innocence, dethrones reason, destroys the home, creates misery and poverty, yea, literally takes the bread from the mouths of little children; if you mean that evil drink that topples Christian men and women from the pinnacles of righteous and gracious living into the bottomless pits of degradation, shame, despair, helplessness, and hopelessness, then, my friend, I am opposed to it with every fibre of my being. However, if by whiskey you mean the oil of conversation, the philosophic wine, the elixir of life, the ale that is consumed when good fellows get together, that puts a song in their hearts and the warm glow of contentment in their eyes; if you mean Christmas cheer, the stimulating sip that puts a little spring in the step of an elderly gentleman on a frosty morning; if you mean that drink that enables man to magnify his joy, and to forget life's great tragedies and heartbreaks and sorrow; if you mean that drink the sale of which pours into Texas treasuries untold millions of dollars each year, that provides tender care for our little crippled children, our blind, our deaf, our dumb, our pitifully aged and infirm, to build the finest highways, hospitals, universities, and community colleges in this nation, then my friend, I am absolutely, unequivocally in favour of it. This is my position, and as always, I refuse to be compromised on matters of principle. --Noah S. "Soggy" Sweat, Jr. (19221996) American judge and politician. [1952 speech] - My policies are based not on some economic theory, but on things I and millions like me were brought up with: an honest day's work for an honest day's pay; live within your means; put by a nest egg for a rainy day; pay your bills on time; support the police. --Margaret Thatcher (1925 ) British conservative stateswoman and Prime Minister [19791990]. Quoted in Chris Ogden _Maggie: An Intimate Portrait of a Woman in Power_, p. 342 [1990]. - These are my principles. If you don't like them I have others. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. Quoted in "Legal Times" [7 February 1983]. (Often attributed to Groucho Marx.) Principles have no real force except when one is well fed. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. - I make no defense of expediency, military, political, temporary, or otherwise. For I believe the moral losses of expediency always far outweigh the temporary gains. And I believe that every drop of blood saved through expediency will be paid for by twenty drawn by the sword. --Wendell Wilkie (18921944) American lawyer and the Republican nominee for the 1940 presidential election (won by FDR). _One World_ [1943] Their feet through faithless leather met the dirt, And oftener chang'd their principles than shirt. --Edward Young (16831765) English poet. "To Mr. Pope" (epistle I, l. 283) ----- reprobate (noun) A morally unprincipled person. Synonym: miscreant ![]() ![]() PRIORITIES . . see: "IMPORTANT" see "SUCCESS" for other related links One resolution I have made, and try always to keep, is this: "To rise above little things." --John Burroughs (18371921) American naturalist and writer. You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage -- pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically -- to say "no" to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger "yes" burning inside. --Stephen Covey (1932 ) American author. _The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People_ It is easier to be a "humanitarian" than to render your own country its proper due; it is easier to be a "patriot" than to make your community a better place to live in; it is easier to be a "civic leader" than to treat your own family with loving understanding; for the smaller the focus of attention, the harder the task. --Sydney J. Harris (19171986) American journalist. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting? --Stephen Levine (1937 ) American autor and poet. In Jack Canfield & Mark Victor Hansen _Chicken Soup for the Soul: 101 Stories to Open the Heart & Rekindle the Spirit_, p. 111 [1993]. Kissing your hand may make you feel very, very good, but a diamond and sapphire bracelet lasts forever. --Anita Loos (18931981) American novelist and Hollywood screenwriter. _Gentlemen Prefer Blondes_ [1925] ^ Louis XV (17101774) King of France [17151774] Louis was playing cards with members of his entourage when a certain M. de Chauvelin was stricken by a fit of apoplexy, of which he died. 'M. de Chauvelin is ill,' exclaimed a courtier, seeing him fall. Louis turned and surveyed the fallen body coldly. 'Ill?' he said. 'He is dead. Take him away. Spades are trumps, gentlemen.' --_Bartlett's Book of Anecdotes_ edited by Clifton Fadiman and Andrι Bernard [2000 ed.] ^ Whatever it is, if it doesn't make you happy, walk away, give it away to someone else who wants it. Let it be THEIR next dream; let it flee from you. You're emptying out your limitations when you do that. Then you have ROOM to grow, to allow magnificent things to fill the vacuum of those seemingly empty places. When you hold onto yesterday, when you hold onto dead and dying adventures, you have no room in your box for greatness. --Ramtha When your schedule leaves you brain-drained and stressed to exhaustion, it's time to give up something. Delegate. Say "No." Be brutal. It's like cleaning out a closet--after a while, it gets easier to get rid of things. You discover that you really didn't need them anyway. --Marilyn Ruman The church is near but the road is icy; the tavern is far away but I will walk carefully. --Russian proverb Superfluous branches We lop away that bearing boughs may live. --William Shakespeare (15641616) English dramatist. _Richard II_ [1595] It is not worthwhile to go around the world to count the cats in Zanzibar. --Henry David Thoreau (18171862) American essayist, poet, and practical philosopher. We hear of a silent generation, more concerned with security than integrity, with conforming than performing, with imitating than creating. --Thomas J. Watson, Sr. (18741956) American industrialist and founder of IBM. ![]() ![]() PRISON . . see "CRIME & PUNISHMENT" for related links A robin red breast in a cage Puts all Heaven in a rage. --William Blake (17571827) English poet. _Auguries of Innocence_, l. 5 [c. 1803] Better build schoolrooms for 'the boy', Than cells and gibbets for 'the man'. --Eliza Cook (18181889) English poet. "A Song for the Ragged Schools" [1853] The degree of civilization in a society is revealed by entering its prisons. --Fyodor Dostoyevsky (18211881) Russian novelist, journalist, and short story writer. _The House of the Dead_ [1862] , tr. Constance Garnett [1957] - [Guantanamo is] a model prison, where people are better treated than in Belgian prisons. --Alain Grignard, visiting Guantanamo in 2006 with a delegation from the Organization for Security and Cooperation in Europe. & note: [...] A Reuters dispatch from Moscow, dated Aug. 8, 2003, reported that Amina Khasanova, whose son was a detainee there, told a Russian newspaper that she was "terribly scared of a Russian prison or a Russian court" for him and hence presumably was in no hurry to have him released. "At Guantanamo they treat him humanely, the conditions are fine," she said. Her son, Andrei Bakhitov, one of the eight Russian detainees at Guantanamo, had written her: "I think that there is not even a health resort in Russia on the level of this place." --Richard Pipes "Letter to the Editor" _The Wall Street Journal_ [5 June 2009] - I can tell you this on a stack of Bibles: prisons are archaic, brutal, unregenerative, overcrowded hell holes where the inmates are treated like animals with absolutely not one humane thought given to what they are going to do once they are released. You're an animal in a cage and you're treated like one. --Jimmy Hoffa (19131975 {disappeared}) American labor leader. _Hoffa: The Real Story_ [1975] A governor of a certain state was visiting the state prison, and stopped to talk with a number of prisoners. They told him their story, and in every instance it was one of wrong suffered by an innocent person. There was one man, however, who admitted his crime and the justice of his sentence. 'I must pardon you,' said the governor; 'I can't have you in here corrupting all these good men.' --Abraham Lincoln (18091865) American Republican statesman, President [18611865]. In _Lincoln's Wit_ [1958] The contagion of crime is like that of the plague. Criminals collected together corrupt each other; they are worse than ever when at the termination of their punishment they re-enter society. --Napoleon I (17691821) Emperor of France [18041815]. Let us reform our schools, and we shall find little reform needed in our prisons. --John Ruskin (18191900) English art and social critic. _Unto This Last_, essay 2 [1862] I never go to a menagerie because I cannot endure the sight of the misery of the captive animals. The exhibiting of trained animals I abhor. What an amount of suffering and cruel punishment the poor creatures have to endure in order to give a few moments' pleasure to men devoid of all thought and feeling for them! --Albert Schweitzer (18751965) Franco-German theologian, philosopher, and mission doctor. _Memories of Childhood and Youth_ [1949] Any one who has been to an English public school will always feel comparatively at home in prison. --Evelyn Waugh (19031966) English novelist. _Decline and Fall_, pt. 3, ch. 4 [1928] We think caged birds sing, when indeed they cry. --John Webster (c.1580c.1625) English dramatist. _The White Devil_, 5.4 [1612] I want to see the word laogai in every dictionary in every language in the world. I want to see the laogai ended. Before 1974, the word "gulag" did not appear in any dictionary. Today, this single word conveys the meaning of Soviet political violence and its labor camp system. "Laogai" also deserves a place in our dictionaries. --Harry Wu (1937 ) Chinese-born American political activist. In "Washington Post" [26 May 1996]. -- A man escaped jail by digging a hole from his jail cell to the outside world. When finally his work was done, he emerged in the middle of a preschool playground. Im free, Im free! he shouted. So what, said a little girl. Im four. ----- gulag (noun) ['gu-lahg] One of the prison camps spread across the Soviet Union from Vladimir, Russia eastward used ostensibly to reeducate criminals, most of whom were political prisoners until the rise of Khrushchev. A particularly harsh prison. immure [ih-MYUR], transitive verb: 1. To enclose within walls, or as if within walls; hence, to shut up; to imprison; to incarcerate. 2. To build into a wall. 3. To entomb in a wall. Ex.: Not surprisingly, Sally shuddered at the thought of being immured in the black cave, to die slowly and hopelessly, far below the sunny hillside. --Peter Pierce, "The Fiction of Gabrielle Lord," Australian Literary Studies [October 1999] Synonyms: cloister, imprison, incarcerate. oubliette (Noun) [oo-bli-'yet] A cell or dungeon room with only a trapdoor at the top for entry and exit. ![]() ![]() PRIVACY . . from government: see "FREEDOM" for related links at home: see "HOME & FAMILY" for related links The public good is in nothing more essentially interested, than in the protection of every individual's private rights. --William Blackstone (17231780) English jurist. They [the makers of the Constitution] conferred, as against the government, the right to be let alonethe most comprehensive of rights and the right most valued by civilized men. --Louis Brandeis (18561941) American lawyer and associate justice of the U.S. Supreme Court [19161939]. In a dissenting Supreme Court opinion "Olnstead v. United States" [1928]. Let every man mind his own business. --Miguel de Cervantes (15471616) Spanish novelist. _Don Quixote de la Mancha_ [1605-1615] If you would be known and not know, vegetate in a village. If you would know and not be known, live in a city. --C.C. Colton (17801832) English clergyman and writer. I never said, `I want to be alone.' I only said, `I want to be left alone.' There is all the difference. --Greta Garbo [Greta Lovisa Gustafsson] (19051990) Swedish actress. New York City is a place where one can weep on the sidewalk in perfect privacy. --Edward Hirsch (b. 1950) American poet. "Portrait of the Artist as an Old Man" (essay) in _A William Maxwell Portrait_ [2004] In Czechoslovakia there is no such thing as freedom of the press. In the United States there is no such thing as freedom from the press. --Martina Navratilova (1957 ) Czech-born American tennis player. Quoted in Lee Green _Sportswit_ [1984]. The poorest man may in his cottage bid defiance to all the forces of the Crown. It may be frail its roof may shake the wind may blow through it the storm may enter the rain may enter but the King of England cannot enter! all his forces dare not cross the threshold of the ruined tenement. --William Pitt, the Elder, also called (from 1766) 1st Earl of Chatham (17081778) British statesman, twice virtual prime minister [17561761, 17661768]. House of Commons speech [March 1763] The Fourth Amendment, and the personal rights which it secures, have a long history. At the very core stands the right of a man to retreat into his own home and there be free from unreasonable governmental intrusion. --Potter Stewart (19151985) Associate Justice of the U.S. Supreme Court [19581981]. On electronic eavesdropping, "Silverman v. United States" [1961]. If the country ever finds itself in an uncomfortable position with respect to privacy, it will not be the result of a grand collusion executing a master plan. Rather, it will be the end point of a series of decisions, each made by a bureaucrat; and each having been seen, at the time, as a valuable thing to have done and serving a commendable social cause. --Willis Ware, _NorthStar_ [29 September 1996] - The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no warrents shall issue but upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized. --Constitution of the United States, Fourth Amendment [15 December 1791]. end page | PACIFISM & PAIN | PAINTING - PARENTING | PARIS - PASSPORTS | PAST (THE) - PATRIOTISM | PEACE - PERCENTAGES | PEOPLE | PERCEPTIONS - PERSUASION | PESSIMISM - PHILOSOPHY | PHONIES - PHYSICS | PIANO - PLANS | PLACES | PLANTS - POETRY | POISON - POLITICAL PARTIES | POLITICS & POLITICIANS | POLLS - POPES | POPEYE - POTENTIAL | POVERTY | POWER | PRACTICALITY - PRAYER | PREACHERS - PREPARED (BE) | PRESENT (THE) - (THE) PRESS | PRETENTIONS - PRIVACY | PROBLEMS - PROGRESSIVES | PROGRESS - PROPAGANDA | PROPOSALS - PUBLIC (THE) | PUBLIC OPINION - PURPOSE (ON HAVING A) | QUALITIES - QUIPS | QUIRKS - QUOTATIONS | | H | I - J | K - L | M | N - O | P - Q | | Return Home | The Credits | The Cast | Act 1 | Act 2 | Act 3 | The Reviews | |
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