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![]() . . . NEIGHBORS/NEIGHBORHOOD see: "HOME & FAMILY" for related links see: "ACQUAINTANCES" - We make our friends, we make our enemies; but God makes our next-door neighbor. --G.K. (Gilbert Keith) Chesterton (18741936) English essayist, novelist, and poet. _Heretics_ [1905] Your next-door neighbor ... is not a man; he is an environment. He is the barking of a dog; he is the noise of a pianola; he is a dispute about a party wall; he is drains that are worse than yours, or roses that are better than yours. --G.K. (Gilbert Keith) Chesterton (18741936) English essayist, novelist, and poet. _The Uses of Diversity_ [1920] - If you would be known and not know, vegetate in a village. If you would know and not be known, live in a city. --C.C. Colton (17801832) English clergyman and writer. _Lacon: or, Many Things in Few Words_, CCCXXXIV [1821 ed.] I never believed in Santa Claus because I knew no white dude would come into my neighborhood after dark. --Dick Gregory (b. 1932) American comedian and social activist. Quoted in Robert Byrne _1911 Best Things Anybody Ever Said_ [1988]. A bad neighbor is a misfortune, as much as a good one is a great blessing. --Hesiod (c. 700 B.C.) Greek poet. _Works and Days_ In ancient days, the most celebrated precept was, 'Know thyself;' in modern times it has been supplanted by the more fashionable maxim, 'Know thy neighbor, and everything about him.' --Samuel Johnson (17091784) English poet, critic, and lexicographer. Attributed in Maturin M. Ballou _Treasury of Thought_, p. 266 [15th ed. 1894]. A neighborhood is where, when you go out of it, you get beat up. --Murray Kempton (19171997) American journalist and a winner of the 1985 Pulitzer Prize. _America Comes of Middle Age_ [1963], "Group Dynamics" Of all the pestilences dire, Including famine, flood, and fire; By Satan and his imps rehearsed, The neighbors' children are the worst. --Stoddard King (18891933) American humorist and author. _Philosophy for Parents_ - Good fences make good neighbors. --"Western Christian Advocate" [13 June 1834] & see: My apple trees will never get across And eat the cones under his pines, I tell him. He only says, 'Good fences make good neighbors.' --Robert Frost (18741963) American poet. "Mending Wall" [1914] - [Native American watching the first white men disembark from ships:] "There goes the neighborhood." --Caption for "New Yorker" cartoon. - I was much distressed by the next door people who had twin babies and played the violin; but one of the twins died, and the other has eaten the fiddle so all is peace. --anon. ![]() ![]() NERVES . . see: "EMOTIONS & FEELINGS" for related links Oh the nerves, the nerves; the mysteries of this machine called Man! Oh the little that unhinges it: poor creatures that we are! --Charles Dickens (18121870) English novelist. _The Chimes_, [1844] "Third Quarter" Happiness means quiet nerves. --W. C. Fields [William Claude Dukenfield] (18801946) American vaudeville star and film actor. Quoted in Robert Lewis Taylor _W.C. Fields, His Follies and Fortunes_ [1949]. ^ Thomas Heggen (19191949) When Heggen's "Mister Roberts" appeared, the publishers arranged for him to make some public appearances to advertise the book. His first speaking engagement was at a luncheon in a New York hotel. Thoughout the meal he sat among the ladies at the head table, paralyzed with apprehension and unable to swallow anything. Called upon to speak, he stood up and, overcome with nerves, failed to utter a single word. A neighbor, seeing his agony, tried to get him started by saying kindly, "Perhaps you can tell us how you wrote your book." Heggen gulped and the words suddenly came: "Well, shit, it was just that I was on this boat. . ." --_Bartlett's Book of Anecdotes_ edited by Clifton Fadiman and Andrι Bernard [2000 ed.] ^ I don't like money actually, but it quiets my nerves. --Joe Louis [Joseph Louis Barrow aka The Brown Bomber] (19141981) Undefeated American boxer and heavyweight champion [1937-49]. Attributed in Connie Robertson _Book of Humorous Quotations_, p. 122 [1998]. ----- restive (adj.) ['res-tiv] 1. Restless, fidgety, unable to restrain oneself; 2. impatient of control or restraint; 3. stubborn, refractive, refusing to move (of animals). tenterhooks [TEN-ter-hooks], noun: "On tenterhooks," in a state of uneasy suspense or painful anxiety. tremulous [TREM-yuh-luhs], adjective: 1. Shaking; shivering; quivering; as, a tremulous motion of the hand or the lips; 2. Affected with fear or timidity; trembling. ![]() . . see: "THE MIND" for related links In "neurosis" one lends false primacy to the reactions of others. --David Cooper (b. 1931) South African psychiatrist. _The Death of the Family_ [1970] We must never let our poor neurotics drive us crazy. --Sigmund Freud (18561939) Austrian psychiatrist. Letter to Carl Gustav Jung [31 December 1911]. Everything we think of as great has come to us from neurotics. It is they and they alone who have founded religions and created great works of art. --Marcel Proust (18711922) French novelist. _Le Cτtι de Guermantes_ (The Guermantes Way), pt. 1 [1920] (According to Ramon Guthrie, "This passage was meant to show what fools people who are capable of uttering such idiocies are.") Work and love these are the basics. Without them there is neurosis. --Dr. Theodor Reik (18881969) Austrian-born American psychoanalyst. _Of Love and Lust_ [1959] Neurosis is the way of avoiding non-being by avoiding being. --Paul Johannes Tillich (18861965) German-born American theologian. _The Courage to Be_ [1952] [He] is simply the victim of an overpowering mother who wants to make him a helpless dependent. Don't believe that stuff about hereditary influences affecting the child. Insanity on all 4 sides of my family, and look at me! A model of mental stability if ever there was one. --Tennessee Williams [Thomas Lanier Williams] (19111983) American dramatist. Letter to Maria Britneva St. Just; quoted in Thomas Mallon _Yours Ever: People and Their Letters_, ch. 2 [2009]. - Neurotics build dream castles, psychotics live in them, and psychiatrists collect the rent. --anon. ![]() . . see: "DIPLOMACY" see: "FOREIGN POLICY" see: "ISOLATION" see: "PACIFISM" see: "INDIFFERENCE" for other related links He that is neither one thing nor the other has no friends. --Ζsop (c. 620 B.C.c. 560 B.C.) (Thought to be a legendary figure.) Neutral men are the devil's allies. --Edwin Hubbel Chapin (18141880) American clergyman and author. _Humanity in the City_ [1854] "The Allies of the Tempter" The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who in times of great moral crises maintain their neutrality. --anon. Credited to Dante by JFK in a 1959 speech, these are not Dante's words according to Ralph Keyes in _The Quote Verifier_. Fred R. Shapiro in _The Yale Book of Quotations_ agrees, and adds that Arthur M. Schlesinger "states in _A Thousand Days_ that Kennedy wrote" a similar passage "and attributed the words to Dante." Thus, the origin remains unclear. People who demand neutrality in any situation are usually not neutral but in favor of the status quo. --Max Eastman (18831969) American leftist writer. _Enjoyment of Poetry with Other Essays in Aesthetics_ [1939] The evidence of terrorism's brutality and inhumanity, of its contempt for life and its contempt for peace, is lying beneath the rubble of the World Trade Center less than two miles from where we meet today. Look at that destruction, that massive, senseless, cruel loss of human life, and then I ask you to look in your own hearts and recognize that there is no room for neutrality on the issue of terrorism. --Rudy Giuliani (b. 1944 Mayor of New York City [19942001]. Address to the United Nations [1 October 2001]. Take sides! Always take sides! You will sometimes be wrong but the man who refuses to take sides must *always* be wrong! Heaven save us from poltroons who fear to make a choice. --Robert Heinlein (19071988) American science-fiction writer. _Double Star_ [1956] In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends. --attributed to Martin Luther King, Jr. (19291968) American civil rights leader. Neutrality, as a lasting principle, is an evidence of weakness. --Lajos Kossuth (18021894) Hungarian lawyer and journalist. Speech in Springfield, Mass. [April 1852]. This policy should aim resolutely at keeping us apart from the quarrels of our neighbors. --Leopold III (19011983) King of the Belgians [1934-51 (abdication)]. Returning his country to neutral status by revoking the Franco-Belgian Treaty [14 October 1936]. In M.J. Cohan and John Major (eds.) _History in Quotations_, p. 819 [2004]. Cohan & Major add: France's Maginot Line defensive strategy begins to unravel, for France was now unable to enter neutral Belgium in the event of war or to build the line alongside the Belgian frontier. As long as Europe prepares for war, America must prepare for neutrality. --Walter Lippmann (18891974) American journalist. In his column in the "New York Herald Tribune" [17 May 1934]. I will bet you an old hat ... that.,. when he [Hitler] wakes up and finds out what has happened, there will be a great rejoicing in the Italian and German camps. I think we ought to introduce a bill for statues of [Senators] Austin, Vandenberg, Lodge ... and ... Taft to be erected in Berlin and put the swastika on them. --Franklin D. Roosevelt (18821945) American Democratic statesman and President [1933-45]. To secretary of the treasury Henry Morgenthau, after the Senate Foreign Relations Committee's rejection on 11 July 1939 of his wish to repeal the US arms embargo; in Robert Dallek _Franklin D. Roosevelt and American Foreign Policy 19321945_, p. 191 [1979]. To Hell with Europe and with the rest of those nations. --Thomas D. Schall (18781935) American politician. In Robert Dallek _Franklin D. Roosevelt and American Foreign Policy 1932-1945_, p. 95 [1979]. While I am not in favor of maladjustment, I view this cultivation of neutrality, this breeding of mental neuters, this hostility to eccentricity and controversy with grave misgiving. One looks back with dismay at the possibility of a Shakespeare perfectly adjusted to bourgeois life in Stratford, a Wesley contentedly administering a country parish, George Washington going to London to receive a barony from George III, or Abraham Lincoln prospering in Springfield with nary a concern for the preservation of the crumbling Union. --Adlai E. Stevenson (19001965) American Democratic politician. Commencement address at Smith College [7 June 1955]. If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. --attributed to Bishop Desmond Tutu (b. 1931) South African cleric and winner of the 1984 Nobel Peace Prize. We must take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. Sometimes we must interfere. When human lives are endangered, when human dignity is in jeopardy, national borders and sensitivities become irrelevant. Wherever men and women are persecuted because of their race, religion, or political views, that place must at that moment become the center of the universe. --Eliezer [Elie] Wiesel (b. 1928) Romanian Jew and Holocaust survivor; winner of the Nobel Peace Prize in 1986. _The Night Trilogy: Night, Dawn, The Accident_ [1960] We have stood apart, studiously neutral. --Woodrow Wilson (18561924) American Democratic statesman and President [1913-21]. Message to Congress [7 December 1915]. ![]() ![]() NEVADA . . see: "LAS VEGAS" see: "PLACES" for other related links It occured to some charitable people [moving west in 1849] who could still muse as they staggered that you couldn't get word back to a man's family that he had died nowhere. So they created place names, and wherever the trail turned or there was a new vista they marked a stick and planted it ... I have an old, yellowing automobile map that still peppers the wilderness of Nevada with such names as Fortitude, Desolation, Last Gasp. --Alistair Cooke [Alfred Cooke] (19082004) British-born American broadcater and journalist. _America_ [1973] ^^ Nevada is an instructive (or horrible) example of federalism at work in other ways, too. One historian called the state the "great rotten borough." Nevada is in essence a barren desert, hostile to most forms of life, including humans. No crops to speak of grow there. In 1900 its population was tiny the skimpiest of all the states, and shrinking, not growing. Then Nevada, in a burst of ingenuity, built an economy by exploiting its sovereignty. Its strategy was to legalize all sorts of things that were illegal in California its neighbor, a state with plenty of people, and eventually lots of cars. After easy divorce came easy marriage and casino gambling. Even prostitution is legal in Nevada, in any county that decides to allow it. Quite a few of them do. --Lawrence M. Friedman (b. 1930) _American Law in the 20th Century_ [2002], ch. 20 "Taking Stock" ^^ If an unknown individual arrived, they did not inquire if he was capable, honest, industrious, but had he killed his man? If he had not, he gravitated to his natural and proper position, that of a man of small consequence; if he had, the cordiality of his reception was graduated according to the number of his dead. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. _Roughing It_ [1872] - Mammoth Lager Beer Saloon, in the basement, corner Main and Virginia Streets, Austin, Nevada. Choice liquors, wines, lager beer and cigars, served by pretty girls, who understand their business and attend to it. Votaries of Bacchus, Gambrinus, Venus or Cupid can spend an evening agreeably at the Mammoth Saloon. --advertisement in the Austin, Nevada daily paper, in Samuel Bowles _Our New West_, p. 279 [1869]. ![]() ![]() NEW ENGLAND . . see: "NATURE" for related links see: "PLACES" for related links Yankee, n. In Europe, an American. In the Northern States of our Union, a New Englander. In the Southern States the word is unknown. (See Damyank.) --Ambrose Bierce (18421914) American newspaperman, wit, and satirist. _The Cynic's Word Book_ [1906] (Retitled in 1911 as _The Devil's Dictionary_.) ^^ The hard soil and four months of snow make the inhabitiant of the northern temperate zones wiser and abler than the fellow who enjoys the fixed smile of the tropics. --Ralph Waldo Emerson (18031882) American philosopher and poet. _Essays_, First Series [1841] "Prudence" Ralph Waldo Emerson was once asked to speak at a ceremony commemorating the sixtieth anniversary of the famous battle of Concord (and the two hundredth anniversary of the town's founding). Emerson considered the request a great honor and resolved to produce a literary work based on the battle. Indeed, he decided to question the surviving veterans about their experiences. One day in the course of his investigation, Emerson met a barefooted farmer driving his oxen. Curious, the poet asked the man whether everyone in the area went without shoes and stockings. "Wal, some on 'em does," the farmer replied, "and the rest on 'em minds their own business." --anecdotage.com ^^ As the New England characteristics are gradually superseded by those of other races, other forms of belief, and other associations, the time may come when a New Englander will feel more as if he were among his own people in London than in one of our seaboard cities. --Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (18091894) American physician, poet, and essayist. _One Hundred Days in Europe_, pp. 310-13 [1888]. The most serious charge which can be brought against New England is not Puritanism but February. --Joseph Wood Krutch (18931970) American critic and naturalist. _The Twelve Seasons_ [1949] The Puritans tried to choke the craving for pleasure in early New England. They had no theater, no dances, no festivals. They burned witches instead. --Walter Lippmann (18891974) American journalist. _A Preface to Politics_, ch. 2 [1914] - If you're fond of sand dunes and salty air Quaint little villages here and there You're sure to fall in love with old Cape Cod. If you like the taste of a lobster stew Served by a window with an ocean view You're sure to fall in love with old Cape Cod. Winding roads that seem to beckon you Miles of green beneath a sky of blue Church bells chimin' on a Sunday morn Remind you of the town where you were born. --"Old Cape Cod" Written by Claire Rothrock, Milt Yakus, and Allan Jeffrey [1957 song] - ^ Catharine Maria Sedgwick (17891867) American writer. Like most Sedgwick's, Catharine was very fond of her native town, Stockbridge, Massachusetts, where the burial markers of the clan are arranged in concentric circles known as the Sedgwick Pie. Someone once remarked to Miss Sedgwick that she spoke about Stockbridge as if it were heaven. 'I expect no very violent transition,' she replied. --_Bartlett's Book of Anecdotes_ edited by Clifton Fadiman and Andrι Bernard ^ - I will repeat only one admonishment from a native of Maine, and I will not put a name to that person for fear of reprisal. 'Don't ever ask directions of a Maine native,' I was told. 'Why ever not?' 'Somehow we think it is funny to misdirect people and we don't smile when we do it, but we laugh inwardly. It is our nature.' --John Steinbeck (19021968) American novelist. _Travels With Charley_ [1962] I soon discovered that if a wayfaring stranger wishes to eavesdrop on a local population the places for him to slip in and hold his peace are bars and churches. But some New England towns don't have bars, and church is only on Sunday. A good alternative is the roadside restaurant were men gather for breakfast before going to work or going hunting. To find these places inhabited, one must get up very early. And there is a drawback even to this. Early-rising men not only do not talk much to strangers, they barely talk to one another. Breakfast conversation is limited to a series of laconic grunts. The natural New England taciturnity reaches its glorious perfection at breakfast. I fed Charley, gave him a limited promenade, and hit the road. An icy mist covered the hills and froze on my windshield. I am not normally a breakfast eater, but here I had to be or I wouldn't see anybody unless I stopped for gas. At the first lighted roadside restaurant I pulled in and took my seat at a counter. The customers were folded over their coffee cups like ferns. A normal conversation is as follows: WAITRESS: 'Same?' CUSTOMER: 'Yep.' WAITRESS: 'Cold enought for you?' CUSTOMER: 'Yep.' (Ten minutes.) WAITRESS: 'Refill?' CUSTOMER: 'Yep.' This is a really talkative customer. Some reduce it to 'Burp' and others do not answer at all. An early-morning waitress in New England leads a lonely life, but I soon learned that if I tried to inject life and gaiety into her job with a blithe remark she dropped her eyes and answered 'Yep' or 'Umph'. Still, I did feel that there was some kind of communication, but I can't say what it was. --John Steinbeck (19021968) American novelist. _Travels With Charley_ [1962] - - There is a sumptuous variety about the New England weather that compels the stranger's admiration and regret. The weather is always doing something there; always adhering strictly to business; aways getting up new designs and trying them on people to see how they will go. But it gets through more business in spring that in any other season. In the spring I have counted one hundred and thirty-six different kinds of weather inside of twenty-four hours. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. Speech to the New England Society, held at Delmonico's, NYC [22 December 1876]. The people of New England are by nature patient and forebearing but there are some things which they will not stand. Every year they kill a lot of poets for writing about 'Beautiful Spring.' These are generally casual visitors who bring their notions of spring from somewhere else. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. Speech to the New England Society, held at Delmonico's, NYC [22 December 1876]. - Vermont has nine months of winter and three months of damned poor sledding. --Vermont saying I wonder if anybody ever reached the age of thirty-five in New England without wanting to kill himself. --Barrett Wendell (18551921) American educator and author. _Barrett Wendell and his Letters_ [1924], ed. by M A De Wolfe Howe. ![]() ![]() NEW HAMPSHIRE . . see: "NATURE" for related links see: "PLACES" for related links If two New Hampshire men aren't a match for the devil, we might as well give the country back to the Indians. --Stephen Vincent Benιt (18981943) American poet and novelist. _The Devil and Daniel Webster_ [1937] Men hang out their signs indicative of their respective trades: shoemakers hang out a gigantic shoe; jewelers, a monster watch; and the dentist hangs out a gold tooth; but up in the Mountains of New Hampshire, God Almighty has hung out a sign to show that there He makes men. --Daniel Webster (17821852) American orator and politician. Quoted in _The Granite Monthly_, vol. LIV in an article by Muriel Lydia Seymour "Our Trip to Old Man of the Mountain" [1922]. ![]() . . see: "PLACES" for related links Now he emerged from the hotel and walked up Eighth Avenue. Two men were mugging an elderly lady. My God, thought Weinstein, time was when one person could handle that job. Some city. Chaos everywhere. Kant was right: The mind imposes order. It also tells you how much to tip. What a wonderful thing, to be conscious! I wonder what people in New Jersey do. --Woody Allen [Allen Stewart Konigsberg] (b. 1935) American actor, screenwriter, and director. "No Kaddish for Weinstein" The sky was murky above me and I felt the rasp of ozone in the back of my throat. As the day wore on cars, chemical plants, and backyard barbecues would make their contribution to the stew that cooked over Jersey. Fancy-pants wimps in L.A. rated their pollution and curtailed activity. In Jersey we just call it air and get on with life. If you're born in Jersey, you know how to rise to a challenge. Bring on the Mob. Bring on bad air. Bring on taxes and obesity, diabetes, heart disease, and macaroni at every meal. Nothing defeats us in Jersey. --Janet Evanovich (b. 1943) American writer. _To the Nines_ [2003] It was the home of places with faintly amusing names Secaucus, Ho-Ho-Kus, Piscataway and of noisy characters who moidered da language, and occasionally each other. --Jim Hartz (b. 1940) American television personality. "New Jersey: A State of Surprise" in _National Geographic_ [November 1981]. ![]() . . see: "LIFE" for related links see: "TIME" for related links Be at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let every new year find you a better person. --Benjamin Franklin (17061790) American politician, inventor, and scientist. Attributed in _Memphis Medical Monthly_, vol. XXI [March 1901]. When I go, I'll take New Year's Eve with me. --Guy Lombardo (19021977) Canadian-born bandleader. Quoted by Hubert Saal in "Newsweek" [1977]. We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put the words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day. --attributed to Edith Lovejoy Pierce (19041983?) - Ring out the old, ring in the new, Ring, happy bells, across the snow; The year is going, let him go; Ring out the false, ring in the true. --Alfred, Lord Tennyson (18091892) English poet. _In Memoriam_ CVI [1850] Hope Smiles from the threshold of the year to come Whispering 'it will be happier'. --Alfred, Lord Tennyson (18091892) English poet. "The Foresters or, Robin Hood and Maid Marian", I, iii [1892 play] - - New Year's is a harmless annual institution, of no particular use to anybody save as a scapegoat for promiscuous drunks, and friendly calls, and humbug resolutions, and we wish you to enjoy it with a looseness suited to the greatness of the occasion. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. Letter to Virginia City Territorial Enterprise [January 1863]. New Year's Day - Now is the accepted time to make your regular annual good resolutions. Next week you can begin paving hell with them as usual. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. Quoted in Victor Doyno (ed.) _Mark Twain: Selected Writings of an American Skeptic_ [1983] ----- Hogmanay (noun) [hag-mκ-'ney] (Scottish) The last day of the year, when children traditionally went from house to house asking for presents. It also refers to a small cake given to children on New Year's day. More recently it has become a raucous New Year's Eve party in many Scottish cities. ![]() ![]() NEW YORK . . see: "NEW YORK CITY" see: "PLACES" for other related links Long Island represents the American's idea of what God would have done with Nature if he'd had the money. --Peter Fleming (19071971) English travel writer. Letter to Rupert Fleming [29 September 1929]. Those who are in Albany escaped Sing Sing, and those who are in Sing Sing were on their way to Albany. --Elbert Hubbard (18591915) American editor, publisher, and author who died in the sinking of the "Lusitania." _The Roycroft Dictionary and Book of Epigrams_ [1923] end page | NAME CALLING - NASTINESS | NATIONALISM - NATIONS | NATURE | NAVY - NEGLECT | NEIGHBORS/NEIGHBORHOOD - NEW YORK | NEW YORK CITY | NEWS - NEWSPEAK | NICE - NONCONFORMITY | NIXON YEARS | NONSENSE - NOVEMBER | NUCLEAR WAR - NURSERY RHYMES | OBESITY - OBSTACLES | OBSTINACY - OKLAHOMA | OLD - OLD AGE | OLD-FASHIONED - OPERA | OPINION | OPPORTUNITY - ORGANIZATION | ORIGINALITY - OYSTERS | | H | I - J | K - L | M | N - O | P - Q | | Return Home | The Credits | The Cast | Act 1 | Act 2 | Act 3 | The Reviews | |
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