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. . . HUMILIATION see: "HURTING (SOMEONE)" for related links [When asked by Dale Carnegie if he was troubled by the attacks of his enemies:] No man can humiliate me or disturb me. I won't let him. --Bernard Baruch (18701965) American financier. Quoted in Dale Carnegie _How to Stop Worrying and Start Living_ [1948]. It has always been a mystery to me how men can feel themselves honored by the humiliation of their fellow beings. --Mohandas K. Gandhi (18691948) Indian statesman and leader of the nationalistic movement against British rule. _An Autobiography or The Story of My Experiments with Truth_ [1927] Remember when what is now called publicity was called public shame and humiliation? --P. J. O'Rourke (b. 1947) American political satirist. Writing in "The American Spectator". The greatest humiliation in life, is to work hard on something from which you expect great appreciation, and then fail to get it. --Edgar Watson Howe (18541937) American journalist and author. _Ventures in Common Sense_ [1919] ![]() . . see: "CHARACTER" for related links Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. --Bible "Matthew" 5:5 Be wiser than other people, if you can; but do not tell them so. --Lord Chesterfield [Philip Dormer Stanhope] (16941773) British writer and politician. Letter to his son [19 November 1745]. Humility is the mother of giants. One sees great things from the valley; only small things from the peak. --G.K. (Gilbert Keith) Chesterton (18741936) English essayist, novelist, and poet. _The Innocence of Father Brown_ [1911] "The Hammer of God" He that places himself neither higher nor lower than he ought to do exercises the truest humility. --C.C. Colton (17801832) English clergyman and writer. _Lacon: or, Many Things in Few Words_, DLVI [1820] Humility is the solid foundation of all the virtues. --attributed to Confucius (551479 B.C.) K'ung Ch'iu, Chinese philosopher. [Uriah Heep speaking:] I'm a very umble person. --Charles Dickens (18121870) English novelist. _David Copperfield_, ch. 16 [1850] One has been endowed with just enough intelligence to be able to see clearly how utterly inadequate that intelligence is when confronted with what exists. If such humility could be conveyed to everybody, the world of human activities would be more appealing. --Albert Einstein (18791955) German-American physicist who developed the special and general theories of relativity. Letter to Queen Elizabeth of Belgium [19 September 1932]. Humility is the most difficult of all virtues to achieve; nothing dies harder than the desire to think well of oneself. --T.S. Eliot (18881965) Anglo-American poet, critic, and dramatist. "Shakespeare and the Stoicism of Seneca" [1927] To be humble to our superiors is duty; to our equals, courtesy; to our inferiors, generosity. --Owen Feltham (c. 16021668) English essayist and poet. _Resolves Divine, Moral, and Political_ [1623] This is the deepest degree of humility: to rejoice when one is humiliated and jeered at, just as the vain person takes pride in great honors; and to feel hurt when honored and esteemed, as the proud person suffers when taunted and ridiculed. --Francis, St, de Sales (15671622) French bishop. In "Humility" _Spiritual Diary: Selected Sayings and Examples of Saints_ [1775] St. Paul Editions [1962]. - Lyricist Ira Gershwin's shy and self-effacing nature is perfectly illustrated by a story conductor-composer John Green, an old Gershwin friend, tells: We were six couples having cocktails with Ira and his wife, Leonore. Ira phones a posh Hollywood restaurant for dinner reservations. Then he returned to the group. "No luck," Ira said resignedly. "They're all filled up." At this point one of the men slipped out. He returned minutes later. "I got the reservations," he reported. Ira was astonished. "But I just called and there were no tables!" he exclaimed. "How did you do it?" The other man grinned. "It was easy, Ira," he said. "I just used your name." --Don Freeman (19081978) American artist. (source unknown) - Whenever I dwell for any length of time on my own shortcomings, they gradually begin to seem mild, harmless, rather engaging little things, not at all like the staring defects in other people's characters. --Margaret Halsey (19101997) American author. _With Malice Toward Some_, pt. I "June 15" [1938] If man makes himself a worm he must not complain when he is trodden on. --Immanuel Kant (17241804) Prussian philosopher. Quoted in Maturin M. Ballou _Treasury of Thought_, p. 245 [15th ed. 1894]. I had nothing to offer anybody except my own confusion. --Jack Kerouac 19221969) American author and member of the "Beat Generation." _On the Road_, 2.3 [1957] Pride ... is never so well disguised and able to take people in as when masquerading as humility. --Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (16131680) French classical author. _Maxims_, 254, [1665], tr. Leonard Tancock [1959] What the world needs is more geniuses with humility, there are so few of us left. --Usually attributed to Oscar Levant or as "Rice's Rumination". Humility is no substitute for a good personality. --Fran Lebowitz (b. 1946) American humorist. _Metropolitan Life_ [1978 ed.] In 1969 I published a small book on Humility. It was a pioneering work which has not, to my knowledge, been superseded. --Lord Longford (19052001) [Francis Aungier Pakenham, (7th Earl of Longford)] British Labour politician and philanthropist. In "Tablet" [22 January 1994]. Lord, where we are wrong, make us willing to change; where we are right, make us easy to live with. --Peter Marshall (19021949) Scottish-American preacher, author, and Senate chaplain. Quoted in Catherine Marshall _A Man Called Peter: The Story of Peter Marshall_ [1951]. [To a diplomat:] Don't be so humble you are not that great. --Golda Meir (18981978) A founder and the fourth prime minister [19691974] of the State of Israel. Quoted in _N.Y. Times_ [18 March 1969]. - What I have learned bears no other fruit than to make me realize how much I still have to learn. --Michel Eyquem de Montaigne (15331592) French moralist and essayist. "Of Experience", in _Essays_ [1588]. One may be humble out of pride. --Michel Eyquem de Montaigne (15331592) French moralist and essayist. _Essais_ (Essays) [pub. 15801588] "Of Presumption" - Humility, that low, sweet root, From which all heavenly virtues shoot. --Thomas Moore (17791852) Irish poet, satirist, composer, and musician. _The Loves of the Angels_ "The Third Angel's Story" Let us be a little humble; let us think that the truth may not perhaps be entirely with us. --Jawaharlal Nehru (18891964) Indian statesman. In _Jawaharlal Nehru's Speeches, March 1953August 1957_, [1963]; pub. by Publications Division, Ministry of Information and Broadcasting. - He that humbleth himself wishes to be exalted. --Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (18441900) German classical scholar, philosopher, and critic of culture. _Human, All Too Human_ [1878] & note: Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled. --Bible "Luke" 18:14 - I yam what I yam, an' that's all I yam! --Elzie Crisler Segar (18941938) American cartoonist and creator of _Popeye_. "Thimble Theatre" [c. 1932], Popeye speaking Humility is a virtue all preach, none practice, and yet everybody is content to hear. The master thinks it good doctrine for his servant, the laity for the clergy, and the clergy for the laity. --John Selden (15841654) English historian. _Table Talk_ [1689] The longer I live the more I see that I am never wrong about anything, and that all the pains that I have so humbly taken to verify my notions have only wasted my time. --George Bernard Shaw (18561950) Irish dramatist and critic. Letter to H.G. Wells, quoted in Dan H. Laurence _Bernard Shaw: Collected Letters: 1911-1925_ [1985]. There is an idea abroad among moral people that they should make their neighbors good. One person I have to make good: myself. --Robert Louis Stevenson (18501894) Scottish essayist, poet, and novelist. "A Christmas Sermon" in _The Works of Robert Louis Stevenson_ [1895]. If you are humble, nothing will touch you; neither praise nor disgrace, because you know what you are. --Mother Teresa (19101997) Roman Catholic nun and missionary. In Martin H. Manser's _The Westminister Collection of Christian Quotations_ [2001], "Humility" If I only had a little humility, I would be perfect. --Ted Turner (b. 1938) American broadcasting entrepreneur and sportsman. _New York Times_ "A Brash Captain Courageous" [19 September 1977] Early in life I had to choose between honest arrogance and hypocritical humility. I chose the former and have seen no reason to change. --Frank Lloyd Wright (18671959) American architect. _The Future of Architecture_ [1953] ![]() ![]() HUNGER . . see: "BEGGARS" see: "FAMINE" see: "POVERTY" Hungry people cannot be good at learning or producing anything, except perhaps violence. --Pearl Bailey (19181990) American singer and actress. _Pearl's Kitchen_ [1973] Ambition is like hunger; it obeys no law but its appetite. --Josh Billings [Henry Wheeler Shaw] (18181885) American humorist. Attributed in Frank Jenners Wilstach _A Dictionary of Similes_, p. 6 [1916]. Hunger makes a thief of any man. --Pearl S. Buck (18921973) American author noted for her novels of life in China; winner of the 1938 Nobel Prize for Literature. _The Good Earth_, ch. 15 [1931] When I feed the hungry, they call me a saint. When I ask why they have no food, they call me a Communist. --(Dom) Hιlder Cβmara (19091999) Brazilian Roman Catholic Archbishop. Quoted in "N.Y. Times" [31 March 1991]. That some of the indigent among us die of scanty food is undoubtedly true; but vastly more in this community die from eating too much than from eating too little. --William Ellery Channing (17801842) American Unitarian clergyman and author. Speech to Benevolent Fraternity of Churches, Boston, Ma. [9 April 1835]. Enough is as good as a feast. --George Chapman (c. 15591634) English playwright. _Eastward Ho_, III, ii [1605] Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired signifies, in the final sense, a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and are not clothed. This world in arms is not spending money alone. It is spending the sweat of its laborers, the genius of its scientists, the hopes of its children. --Dwight D. Eisenhower (18901969), American Army General, supreme Allied commander WWII, NATO commander, American President [19531961]. Speech in Washington [16 April 1953], in _Public Papers of Presidents_ "1953" [1960] p. 182. Where there is Hunger, Law is not regarded; and where Law is not regarded, there will be Hunger. --Benjamin Franklin (17061790) American politician, inventor, and scientist. _Poor Richard's Almanack_ [1755] The children who go to bed hungry in a Harlem slum or a West Virginia mining town are not being deprived because no food can be found to give them; they are going to bed hungry because, despite all our miracles of invention and production, we have not yet found a way to make the necessities of life available to all of our citizens including those whose failure is not a lack of personal industry or initiative, but only an unwise choice of parents. --J. William Fulbright (19051995) American politician. _Old Myths and New Realities_ [1964] Idleness is a mother. She has a son, robbery, and a daughter, hunger. --Victor Hugo (18021885) French poet, dramatist, and novelist. _Les Miserables_ [1862], "Saint Denis" We went over a great hye mountain as strait as stair steps in snow up to our knees ... the Bears took the provision the men had cashed and we had but very little to eat ... Some of the compana was eating them that died ... 3 died and the rest eat them. Thay was 11 day without any thing to eat but the Dead ... O Mary I have not rote you half of the truble we have had but I have rote you anuf to let you now that you don't now what truble is but thank god we have all got throw and the only family that did not eat human flesh. --Virginia Reed, aged 12, to Mary Keyes [16 May 1847], in George R. Street _Ordeal by Hunger_ [1960 ed.] pp. 360-1. Quoted in M.J. Cohan and John Major (eds.) _History in Quotations_ [2004] p.578. Cohan & Major note: The child describes the ordeal of the Donner Party in its westward crossing of the Sierra Nevada Mountains between November 1846 and April 1847. A hungry people listens not to reason, not cares for justice, nor is bent by any prayers. --Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4 BC65 A.D.) Roman philosopher and poet. _De Brevitate Vitae_ (On the Shortness of Life), XVIII Let me have men about me that are fat, Sleek-headed men and such as sleep a-nights. Yond Cassius has a lean and hungry look, He thinks too much; such men are dangerous. --William Shakespeare (15641616) English dramatist. _Julius Caesar_, I, ii [1599] - There is a crime here that goes beyond denunciation. There is a sorrow here that weeping cannot symbolize. There is a failure here that topples all our successes. The fertile earth, the straight tree rows, the sturdy trunks, and the ripe fruit. And children dying of pellagra must die because a profit cannot be taken from an orange. And coroners must fill in the certificate died of malnutrition because the food must rot, must be forced to rot. ... In the eyes of the people there is the failure; and in the eyes of the hungry there is a growing wrath. In the souls of the people the grapes of wrath are filling and growing heavy, growing heavy for the vintage. --John Ernst Steinbeck (19021968) American novelist. _The Grapes of Wrath_ [1939] The line between hunger and anger is a thin line. --John Ernst Steinbeck (19021968) American novelist. _The Grapes of Wrath_ [1939] - I have been assured by a very knowing American of my acquaintance in London, that a young healthy child, well nursed, is at a Year old a most delicious, nourishing, and wholesome Food, whether stewed, roasted, baked, or boiled, and I make no doubt that it will equally serve in a Fricassee, or a Ragout. --Jonathan Swift (16671745) Anglo-Irish poet and satirist. "A Modest Proposal for Preventing the Children of Poor People from Being a Burden to Their Parents or the Country, and for Making Them Beneficial to the Public" [1729] Principles have no real force except when one is well fed. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. _Extracts from Adam's Diary_ TOPICAL - Going With the Grain By Ronald Bailey _The Wall Street Journal_ September 5, 2006 Who won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1970? You may be forgiven for not remembering, given some of the prize's dubious recipients over the years (e.g., Yasser Arafat). Well, then: Who has saved perhaps more lives than anyone else in history? The answer to both questions is, of course, Norman Borlaug. Who? Norman Borlaug, 92, is the father of the "Green Revolution," the dramatic improvement in agricultural productivity that swept the globe in the 1960s. He is now the subject of an admiring biography by Leon Hesser, a former State Department official who first met Mr. Borlaug 40 years ago in Pakistan, where they worked together to boost that country's grain production. "The Man Who Fed the World" describes, in a workmanlike way, how a poor Iowa farm boy trained in forestry and plant pathology came to be one of humanity's greatest benefactors. [ . . . ] It was an achievement that made Mexico self-sufficient in wheat by the late 1950s and, when later deployed throughout much of the developing world, forestalled the mass starvation predicted by neo-Malthusians. In the late 1960s, lest we forget, most experts were speaking of imminent global famines in which billions of people would perish. "The battle to feed all of humanity is over," biologist Paul Ehrlich famously wrote in "The Population Bomb," his 1968 best seller. "In the 1970s and 1980s hundreds of millions of people will starve to death in spite of any crash programs embarked upon now." As Mr. Ehrlich was making his dark predictions, Mr. Borlaug was embarking on just such a crash program. Working with scientists and administrators in India and Pakistan, he succeeded in getting his highly productive dwarf wheat varieties to hundreds of thousands of South Asian peasant farmers. These varieties resisted a wide spectrum of plant pests and diseases and produced two to three times more grain than traditional varieties. [ . . . ] Hence the Nobel Prize. The chairman of the Nobel committee explained why it had chosen Mr. Borlaug in this way: "More than any other single person of this age, [he] has helped to provide bread for a hungry world. We have made this choice in the hope that providing bread will also give the world peace." Whether bread induces peace is a question for another day. It certainly kills hunger and saves lives. Contrary to Mr. Ehrlich's bold pronouncement, hundreds of millions of people did not die for lack of food. Far from it. Despite occasional local famines caused by armed conflicts or political mischief, food is more abundant and cheaper today than ever before in history. It is an absurd travesty that Mr. Ehrlich is still much better known than Mr. Borlaug, but perhaps Mr. Hesser's biography can begin to right the balance. Mr. Borlaug is still tirelessly working to keep hunger at bay. He remains a consultant to the International Maize and Wheat Improvement Center in Mexico and president of a private Japanese foundation working to spread the Green Revolution to sub-Saharan Africa. He believes that biotechnology will be crucial to boosting world food supplies in the coming decades and decries the underfunding of the world's network of nonprofit agricultural research centers. He also laments the unnecessary suspicion with which biotech is treated these days. "Activists have resisted research," he notes, "and governments have overregulated it." They both miss the point. "Responsible biotechnology is not the enemy: starvation is." Mr. Bailey is the science correspondent for Reason magazine and the author of "Liberation Biology: The Scientific and Moral Case for the Biotech Revolution." - A hungry young fellow named Marvin Sat dreaming of turkeys and carvin'. So a lady brought Spam, But he said, 'Thank you, ma'am; I prefer the alternative: starvin'.' --anon. ![]() ![]() HUNTING . . see: "ANIMALS" for related links see: "ENTERTAINMENT, HOBBIES, & LEISURE ACTIVITIES" for related links see: "SPORTS" for related links Boys throw stones at frogs for fun, but the frogs don't die in 'fun', but in sober earnest. --Bion the Borysthenite (325?255? B.C.) Greek popular philosopher. In Plutarch _Moralia_. Hunting is a relic of the barbarous spirit that thirsted formerly for human blood, but is now content with the blood of birds and animals. --Christian Nestell Bovee (18201904) American writer. Attributed in Dena Jones _Hunting Quotations: Two Hundred Years of Writings..._ [1992]. Find some other way of proving your manhood than by shooting defenseless animals and birds. --H. Jackson Brown, Jr. (b. 1940) American author. _Life's Little Instruction Book_ [1991], Maxim #290 I am Tarzan of the Apes. I want you. I am yours. You are mine. We will live here together always in my house. I will bring you the best fruits, the tenderest deer, the finest meats that roam the jungle. I will hunt for you. I am the greatest of the jungle hunters. I will fight for you. I am the mightiest of the jungle fighters. You are Jane Porter, I saw it in your letter. When you see this you will know that it is for you and that Tarzan of the Apes loves you. --Edgar Rice Burroughs (18751950) American novelist. _Tarzan of the Apes_ [1914] Detested sport, That owes its pleasures to another's pain; That feeds upon the sobs and dying shrieks Of harmless nature. --William Cowper (17311800) English poet and hymnodist. "The Task", 3.326 [1785] The dusky night rides down the sky, And ushers in the morn: The hounds all join in glorious cry, The huntsman winds his horn: And a-hunting we will go. --Henry Fielding (1707-1754) English novelist and dramatist. _Don Quixote in England_, 2. 5. [1734] A man who can, in cold blood, hunt and torture a poor, innocent animal, cannot feel much compassion for the distress of his own species. --Frederick II [Frederick the Great] (17121786) King of Prussia [17401786]. Attributed in Dena Jones _Hunting Quotations: Two Hundred Years of Writings..._ [1992]. Wild animals never kill for sport. Man is the only one to whom the torture and death of his fellow creatures is amusing in itself. --James A. Froude (18181894) English historian. _Oceana_ [1886], ch. 5 If killing foxes is necessary for the safety and survival of other species, I and several million others will vote for it to continue. But the slaughter ought not to be fun. --Roy Hattersley (b. 1932) British Labour politician. In "Guardian" [21 April 1990]. Man, biologically considered, and whatever else he may be in the bargain, is simply the most formidable of all the beasts of prey, and, indeed, the only one that preys systematically on its own species. --William James (18421910) American philosopher. "Remarks at the Peace Banquet", speech in Boston, Mass. [7 October 1904]. It is very strange, and very melancholy, that the paucity of human pleasures should persuade us ever to call hunting one of them. --Samuel Johnson (17091784) English poet, critic, and lexicographer. In Piozzi _Anecdotes of Johnson_ [1786]. When a man wantonly destroys one of the works of man, we call him a vandal. When he wantonly destroys one of the works of God, we call him a sportsman. --Joseph Wood Krutch (18931970) American critic and naturalist. _Great Chain of Life_ [1957] A sportsman is a man who, every now and then, simply has to get out and kill something. Not that he's cruel. He wouldn't hurt a fly. It's not big enough. --Stephen Butler Leacock (18691944) Canadian humorist. _My Remarkable Uncle, and Other Sketches_ p. 73 [1942] There are only two things that ever make the front page in Maine papers. One is a forest fire and the other is when a New Yorker shoots a moose instead of the game warden. --Groucho [Julius Henry] Marx (18951977) American film comedian. In a letter to "Variety" [23 August 1934], quoted in his _The Groucho Phile_ [1976]. ^ From the Blue Earth (Minn.) Faribault County Register. About 18,000 deer in the state will take part in a postcard survey asking them to report information about wild turkey sightings while hunting. --_New Yorker_ (magazine) [24 December 2007] ^ When a man wants to murder a tiger, he calls it sport: when the tiger wants to kill him, he calls it ferocity. --George Bernard Shaw (18561950) Irish comic dramatist, literary critic, Socialist propagandist, and winner of the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1925 [he didn't accept it.] _Man and Superman_ [1903] "Maxims for Revolutionists: Crime and Punishment" ^ Alfred, Lord Tennyson (18091892) British poet, poet laureate [18501892]. Tennyson was entertaining a Russian nobleman on his house on the Isle of Wight. One morning the Russian set off on a shooting expedition, returning later that day with the proud news that he had shot two peasants. Tennyson politely corrected his guest's pronunciation: 'You mean two pheasants,' he said. 'No,' replied the Russian,' 'two peasants. They were insolent, so I shot them.' --_Bartlett's Book of Anecdotes_ edited by Clifton Fadiman and Andrι Bernard [2000 ed.] ^ The English country gentleman galloping after a fox the unspeakable in full pursuit of the uneatable. --Oscar Wilde (18541900) Anglo-Irish dramatist and poet. _A Woman of No Importance_, act 1 [1893] The fascination of shooting as a sport depends almost wholly on whether you are at the right or wrong end of a gun. --attributed to P.G. [Pelham Grenville] Wodehouse (18811975) English humorist; American citizen from 1955. ----- nimrod (noun) ['nim-rahd] A great hunter, someone with a passion for hunting. spoor [SPOHR], noun: 1. A track or trail, esp. that of a wild animal pursued as game. ![]() . see: "NATURE" for related links The 2006 hurricane season is here, and if you're a resident of Florida, you know what that means: It means you have the IQ of bean dip. --Dave Barry (b. 1947) American humorist. "A tip for the hurricane season: Try to have some kind of a clue" _Miami Herald_ [28 May 2006] We tell our children and grandchildren there are no such things as monsters and evil, one-eyed giants. We tell them such things are the stuff of fairy tales and fictional legend. We tell them not to worry. But perhaps we tell them as much to reassure ourselves as them ... because we are not really so certain. A hurricane ... a true one-eyed monster, can rattle our firm beliefs that evil giants do not exist in our world. --Buzz Bernard, Sr. Meteorologist "No such things as monsters?" The Weather Channel [13 September 1999] It seemed as if a total dissolution of nature was taking place. The roaring of the sea and wind, fiery meteors flying about it [sic] in the air, the prodigious glare of almost perpetual lightning, the crash of falling houses, and the ear-piercing shrieks of the distressed, were sufficient to strike astonishment into angels. --Alexander Hamilton (1755or571804) New York delegate to the Constitutional Convention, major author of the _Federalist Papers_, and first secretary of the Treasury of the United States [17891795]. After witnessing what the local press called the "most dreadful hurricane known in the memory of man." ![]() ![]() HURT . . see: "ABUSE" see: "CRUELTY" see: "INSULT" see: "MEANNESS" see: "OFFENSE" see: "PAIN" see: "SLANDER" see: "WRONG" see: "EMOTIONS & FEELINGS" for other related links see: "UNHAPPINESS" for other related links Injuries accompanied with insults are never forgiven; all men, on these occasions, are good haters, and lay out their revenge at compound interest. --C.C. Colton (17801832) English clergyman and writer. _Lacon: or, Many Things in Few Words_, CCCCLIX [1820] If you can, help others. If you can't, at least don't hurt others. --attributed to Dalai Lama [Lhama Thondup or Lhama Dhondrub] (b. 1935) Spiritual head of Tibetan Buddhism. (Dalai Lama is Mongolian for "Ocean of Wisdom") We mortals, men and women, devour many a disappointment between breakfast and dinner-time; keep back the tears and look a little pale about the lips, and in answer to inquiries say, 'Oh, nothing!' Pride helps us; and pride is not a bad thing when it only urges us to hide our own hurts not to hurt others. --George Eliot [Mary Ann Evans] (18191880) English novelist. _Middlemarch_, bk. I, ch. VI [18711872] The turning point in the process of growing up is when you discover the core of strength within you that survives all hurt. --Max Lerner (19021992) American educator, author, and syndicated columnist. _The Unfinished Century_ [1959] Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket safe, dark, motionless, airless it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable. --C.S. [Clive Staples] Lewis (18981963) British scholar and novelist. _The Four Loves_ [1960] A torn jacket is soon mended; but hard words bruise the heart of a child. --Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (18071882) American poet. _Driftwood_ [1857], "Table-Talk" For it must be noted, that men must either be caressed or annihilated; they will revenge themselves for small injuries, but cannot do so for great ones; the injury therefore that we do to a man must be such that we need not fear his vengeance. --Niccolς Machiavelli (14691527) Florentine statesman and political philosopher. _The Prince_ [written 1513] Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears. --Marcus Aurelius Antoninus (121180) Roman emperor [161180] and Stoic philosopher. _Meditations_, trans. Maxwell Staniforth [1964] The hearts of small children are delicate organs. A cruel beginning in this world can twist them into curious shapes. The heart of a hurt child can shrink so that forever afterward it is hard and pitted as the seed of a peach. Or, again, the heart of such a child may fester and swell until it is misery to carry within the body, easily chafed and hurt by the most ordinary things. --Carson Smith McCullers (19171967) American author. _The Ballad of the Sad Cafι_ [1951] It is the insult and not the injury that makes the deeper wounds. --H.L. (Henry Louis) Mencken (18801956) American journalist and literary critic. "The Politician" in _Prejudices: Fourth Series_ [1924]. - He who has injured thee was either stronger or weaker than thee. If weaker, spare him; if stronger, spare thyself. --Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4 BC65 A.D.) Roman philosopher and poet. _De ira_ (On anger), III Time often heals what reason cannot. --Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4 BC65 A.D.) Roman philosopher and poet. "Agamemnon" - It takes your enemy and your friend, working together, to hurt you to the heart: the one to slander you and the other to get the news to you. --Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (18351910) American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot. _Following the Equator_ [1897] "Pudd'nhead Wilson's New Calendar", ch. XLV [On bull riding:] It can be a tough life. I've broken ribs, pulled my arm out, and been knocked out twice; but I haven't been hurt real bad. --Sam Walker (age 18), quoted in "A Special Place: Texas Hill Country" by John Graves in _National Geographic_ [April 1999]. - Said John, 'Fight on, my merry men all, I am a little hurt, but I am not slain; I will lay me down for to bleed awhile, And then Ill rise and fight with you again.' --"Johnnie Armstrong" Old English Ballad found in _Wit Restored_ [1658] There was an old man of Darjeeling Who hung by his feet from the ceiling; He fell on his head But felt nothing, he said, For he'd lost all sensation of feeling. --anon. - Our Lips And Ears If you your lips would keep from slips. Five things observe with care: Of whom you speak, to whom you speak, And how and when and where. If you your ears would save from jeers, These things keep meekly hid: Myself and I, and mine and my, And how I do and did. --anon. - ----- nocuous [OK-yoo-uhs], adjective: Very hurtful; noxious. end page | HABIT - HANGOVER | HAPPINESS | HAPPY BIRTHDAY - HATE | HATS - HEAT | HEALTH | HEAVEN - HELPING | HEROES - HIROSHIMA | HISTORIANS & HISTORY | HITCHCOCK - HOLLYWOOD | HOLOCAUST - HOMOSEXUALS | HOME - HOME & FAMILY | HONESTY & HONOR | HOOVER - HOTELS | HOUSE - HUMAN NATURE | HUMAN RACE - HUMANITY | HUMILIATION - HURT | HUMOR | HURTING (SOMEONE) | HUSBANDS - HYPOCRISY | | H | I - J | K - L | M | N - O | P - Q | | Return Home | The Credits | The Cast | Act 1 | Act 2 | Act 3 | The Reviews | |
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