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CONTRADICTION
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CONTEXT

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Whenever you tear an idea from it's context and treat
it as if it were a self-sufficient, independent item,
you invalidate the thought process involved.

A context-dropper forgets or evades any wider context.
He stares at only one element, and he thinks, 'I can
change just this one point, and everything else will
remain the same.'

--Leonard Peikoff (b. 1933)
Canadian-born American philosopher.
_Objectivism: The Philosophy of Ayn Rand_ [1991]

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Context-dropping is one of the chief
psychological tools of evasion.
--Ayn Rand (1905—1982)
Russian-born American writer.
_The Virtue of Selfishness_ [1964]

'I must claim the quoter's privilege of giving only as much of the
text as will suit my purpose,' said Tan-Chun. 'If I told you how it
went on, I should end up by contradicting myself!'
--Ts'ao Chan [Pinyin Cao Zhan] (c.1715—1763)
Chinese author.
_Hung lou meng_ (Dream of the Red Chamber)

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truncate (transitive verb)
Forms: truncated; truncating
To shorten by or as if by cutting off
truncation: noun





CONTRADICTION

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Let us never fall into the vulgar mistake
of dreaming that I am persecuted
whenever I am contradicted.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803—1882)
American philosopher and poet.
_Journal_ [8 November 1838]

When we risk no contradiction,
It prompts the tongue to deal in fiction.
--John Gay (1685—1732)
English poet and dramatist.
_Fables_, pt. 1 [1727], "The Elephant and the Bookseller"

There is only one thing that a philosopher can be
relied on to do [...] contradict other philosophers.
--William James (1842—1910)
American philosopher.
Speech in Boston, Mass. [7 October 1904].

It was one of the rules which, above all others,
made Doctor [Benjamin] Franklin the most
amiable of men in society, 'never to contradict
anybody.'
--Thomas Jefferson (1743—1826)
American statesman and president [1801—1809].
Letter to Thomas Jefferson Randolph [24 November 1808].

A man takes contradiction and advice much more easily
than people think, only he will not bear it when violently
given, even though it be well founded. Hearts are flowers;
they remain open to the softly falling dew, but shut up in
the violent downpour of rain.
--Jean Paul Richter (1763—1825)
German novelist.
Attributed in Henry Southgate (ed.)
_Many Thoughts of Many Minds_, p. 61 [1862, 3rd edition].

There is an eagle in me that wants to soar and there
is also a hippopotamus in me that wants to wallow
in the mud.
--attributed to Carl Sandburg (1878—1967)
American poet.

If you demand my authorities for this and that, I must reply that
only those who have never hunted up the authorities as I have
believe that there is any authority who is not contradicted flatly
by some other authority.
--George Bernard Shaw (1856—1950)
Irish dramatist and critic.
_Androcles and the Lion_ [performed 1912]

Do I contradict myself?
Very well then I contradict myself,
(I am large, I contain multitudes.)
--Walt Whitman (1819—1892)
American poet.
"Song of Myself", st. 51 in _Leaves of Grass_ [1855].

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"New Yorker" cartoon caption, publisher to author:

"Come now, Mr Dickens; it must have been either the best of
times or the worst of times. It could hardly have been both!"

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Cleanliness is next to godliness.
Cleanliness is next to impossible.
--Charlie Brown, in "Peanuts"

I looked in the dictionary. "Cleanliness" is *not*
next to "godliness." "Cleanliness" is between
"claustrophobia" and "cleavage."
--attributed to George Carlin (1937—2008)
American stand-up comedian and author.

Cleanliness is next to godliness.
Godliness is perfection.
Perfection is impossible.
Therefore, Cleanliness is next to impossible.

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A word to the wise is sufficient.
Talk is cheap.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Out of sight, out of mind.

Confession is good for the soul.
Keep your troubles to yourself.

Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.
Nice guys finish last.

Don't believe everything you hear.
Where there's smoke, there's fire.

Don't judge a book by its cover.
Clothes make the man.

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
Beware of Greeks bearing gifts.

Faint heart never won fair lady.
The meek shall inherit the Earth.

Haste makes waste.
Time waits for no man.

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
Don't beat your head against a stone wall.

It's better to be safe than sorry.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Life is what we make it.
What is to be will be.

Look before you leap.
He who hesitates is lost.

Many hands make light work.
Too many cooks spoil the broth.

Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today.
Don't cross the bridge until you come to it.

Nothing venture, nothing gain.
Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

Opposites attract.
Birds of a feather flock together.

Seek and ye shall find.
Curiosity killed the cat.

The pen is mightier than the sword.
Actions speak louder than words.

The squeaking wheel gets the grease.
Silence is golden.

You're never too old to learn.
You can't teach an old dog new tricks.

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belie (verb) [bκ-'LI]
To show to be false, contradict, to misrepresent,
to give a false impression of.

cavil (verb) ['kζ-vκl]
To object on frivolous or petty grounds, to quibble.

oxymoron (noun) [ahk-see-'mo-rahn]
A phrase comprising two mutually contradictory words.
Examples: a long brief, the living dead, freezer burn,
near miss, old news, pretty ugly, alone together,
almost exactly, half naked, jumbo shrimp, holy war,
rap music.




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CONTRARIANS

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[Professor Wagstaff, (Groucho Marx) :]
I don't know what they have to say. It makes no
difference anyway. Whatever it is, I'm against it.
--"Horse Feathers" [1932 movie]
Screenplay by Will B. Johnstone, Bert Kalmar, S.J. Perelman, and Harry Ruby.

Those who obstinately oppose the most widely-held
opinions more often do so because of pride than
lack of intelligence. They find the best places in
the right set already taken, and they do not want
back seats.
--Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (1613—1680)
French classical author.
_Maxims_ [1665]

To do just the opposite is also a form of imitation.
--Georg Christoph Lichtenberg (1742—1799)
German scientist and drama critic.
"Notebook E", Aphorism 11, _Aphorisms_ [1775—1779]




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CONVERSATION

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No man means all he says, and yet very few
say all they mean, for words are slippery
and thought is viscous.
--Henry Brooks Adams (1838—1918)
American historian & man of letters.
_The Education of Henry Adams_, ch. 31 [1907]

Good nature is more agreeable in conversation than
wit, and gives a certain air to the countenance which
is more amiable than beauty.
--Joseph Addison (1672—1719)
English essayist, poet, and dramatist.
_The Spectator_, No. 169 [13 September 1711]

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Debate is masculine; conversation feminine.
--attributed to [Amos] Bronson Alcott (1799—1888)
American philosopher, teacher, and reformer; father of Louisa May Alcott.


Egotists cannot converse, they talk to themselves only.
--[Amos] Bronson Alcott (1799—1888)
American philosopher, teacher, and reformer; father of Louisa May Alcott.
_Concord Days_ [1872]

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The first requirement of good conversation is
that nobody should know what is coming next.
--Havilah Babcock (1898—1964)
American educator, author, and outdoorsman.
"When a Man's Thoughts Are Pure" reprinted
in _The Best of Field & Stream_ [2002].

I suppose there are now few survivors among the
people who had the delight of hearing Oscar Wilde
talk. Of these I am one. I have had the privilege of
listening also to many other masters of table-talk —
Meredith and Swinburne, Edmund Gosse and Henry
James, Augustine Birrell and Arthur Balfour, Gilbert
Chesterton and Desmond MacCarthy and Hilaire
Belloc — all of them splendid in their own way. But
assuredly Oscar in *his* own way was the greatest of
them all — the most spontaneous and yet the most
polished, the most soothing and yet the most surprising.
That his talk was mostly a monologue was not his own
fault. His manners were very good; he was careful to give
his guests or his fellow-guests many a conversational
opening; but seldom did anyone respond with more
than a few words. Nobody was willing to interrupt the
music of so magnificent a virtuoso. To have heard him
consoles me for not having heard Dr. Johnson or
Edmund Burke, Lord Brougham or Sydney Smith.
--Sir Max Beerbohm (1872—1956)
English satirist and caricaturist.
1953 letter to Wilde's son, Vyvyan Holland, as quoted in Joseph Bristow
_Oscar Wilde and Modern Culture: The Making of a Legend_ [2008].

When I complained of having dined at a splendid table
without hearing one sentence of conversation worthy
of being remembered, he said, "Sir, there seldom is
any such conversation."
Boswell: "Why then meet at table?"
Johnson: "Why, to eat and drink together, and to
promote kindness; and, Sir, this is better done when
there is no solid conversation; for when there is,
people differ in opinion, and get into bad humour,
or some of the company who are not capable of such
conversation, are left out, and feel themselves
uneasy. It was for this reason, Sir Robert Walpole
said, he always talked bawdy at his table, because
in that all could join."
--James Boswell (1740—1795)
Scottish lawyer, diarist, and author.
_Life of Samuel Johnson_ [1791] (entry of 1776)

One could take down a book from a shelf ten times more
wise and witty than almost any man's conversation. Bacon
is wiser, Swift more humorous than any person one is
likely to meet with; but they cannot chime in with the exact
frame of thought in which we may happen to take them down
from our shelves. Therein lies the luxury of conversation;
and when a living speaker does not yield us that luxury,
he becomes only a book standing on two legs.
--Thomas Campbell (1777—1844)
Scottish poet.
19 June 1820 entry in _Life and Letters of Thomas
Campbell_, ed. by William Beattie [3 vols., 1849].

I don't like to talk much with people who always agree with me.
It is amusing to coquette with an echo for a little while, but one
soon tires of it.
--Thomas Carlyle (1795—1881)
Scottish historian and political philosopher.
Attributed in Tryon Edwards _A Dictionary of Thoughts_, p. 89 [1891].

The dead might as well try to speak to
the living as the old to the young.
--Willa Silbert Cather (1873—1947)
American novelist.
_One of Ours_, bk. II, ch. v [1922]

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Give your opinion modestly and coolly,
which is the only way to convince.
--Lord Chesterfield [Philip Dormer Stanhope] (1694—1773)
British writer and politician.
Letter to his son [16 October 1747].


Never seem wiser, nor more learned, than the people
you are with. Wear your learning, like your watch, in
a private pocket: and do not merely pull it out and
strike it; merely to show that you have one.
--Lord Chesterfield [Philip Dormer Stanhope] (1694—1773)
In Charles Strachey (ed.) _The Letters of the Earl of Chesterfield to His Son_ [1901].

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After three days without reading, talk becomes flavorless.
--Chinese Proverb

Pedantry consists in the use of words unsuitable
to the time, place, and company.
--Samuel Taylor Coleridge (1772—1834)
English poet, critic, and philosopher.
_Biographia Literaria_ [1817]

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Some men are very entertaining for a first interview, but
after that they are exhausted, and run out; on a second
meeting we shall find them very flat and monotonous;
like hand-organs, we have heard all their tunes.
--C.C. Colton (1780—1832)
English clergyman and writer.
_Lacon: or, Many Things in Few Words_, CCXXXIII [1821 ed.]


When we are in the company of sensible men, we ought
to be doubly cautious of talking too much, lest we lose
two good things, their good opinion, and our own
improvement; for what we have to say, we know, but
what they have to say, we know not.
--C.C. Colton (1780—1832)
English clergyman and writer.
_Lacon: or, Many Things in Few Words_, CCXXXVI [1828 ed.]

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Variety's the very spice of life,
That gives it all its flavor.
--William Cowper (1731—1800)
English poet and hymnodist.
_The Task_ [1785]


Discourse may want an animated— No,
To brush the surface, and to make it flow;
But still remember, if you mean to please,
To press your point with modesty and ease.
--William Cowper (1731—1800)
English poet and hymnodist.
"Conversation" in _Poems by William Cowper_ [2 vols., 1794].

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To do all the talking and not be willing to listen is a form of greed.
--attributed to Democritus of Abdera (c. 460 B.C.—c. 370 B.C.)
Greek philosopher.

The reading of all good books is like a conversation
with the finest men of past centuries.
--Renι Descartes (1596—1650)
French philosopher and mathematician.
_Discours de la mιthode_ [1637] (Discourse on Method)

I see people in terms of dialogue and I
believe that people are their talk.
--Roddy Doyle (b. 1958)
Irish novelist.
In John Ardagh _Ireland and the Irish_ [1994].

Repartee [...] is the soul of conversation.
--John Dryden (1631—1700)
English poet, critic, and dramatist.
_An Evening's Love_ [ performed 1668; published 1671]

Gentlemen; when you *come down* to
common-place small-talk with an intelligent
lady, one of two things is the consequence;
she either recognizes the condescension
and despises you, or else she accepts it
as the highest intellectual effort of which
you are capable, and rates you accordingly.
--Mrs E.B. Duffey,
in _The Ladies' and Gentlemen's Etiquette_ [1877].

If you have anything to tell me of importance,
for God's sake begin at the end.
--Sara Jeannette Duncan (1861—1922)
Camadian journalist and essayist.
_The Imperialist_ [1904]

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Two may talk and one may hear, but three cannot take
part in a conversation of the most sincere and searching
sort.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803—1882)
American philosopher and poet.
_Essays_ [1841] "Friendship"


The music that can deepest reach,
And cure all ill, is cordial speech.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803—1882)
American philosopher and poet.
"Considerations by the Way" in _The Conduct of Life_ [1860].


Wise, cultivated, genial conversation is the last flower
of civilization. . . . Conversation is our account of
ourselves.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803—1882)
American philosopher and poet.
"Woman", in _Miscellanies_ [1884].

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How time flies when you's doin' all the talking.
--Harvey Fierstein (b. 1954)
American dramatist and actor.
_Torch Song Trilogy_ [1979]

He and Evie soon fell into a conversation of the 'No, I didn't;
yes, you did' type — conversation which, though fascinating
to those who are engaged in it, neither desires nor deserves
the attention of others.
--E.M. [Edward Morgan] Forster (1879—1970)
English novelist.
_Howards End_ [1910]

Someone to tell it to is one of the fundamental needs of human beings.
--Miles Franklin [Stella Maria Sarah Miles Franklin] (1879—1954)
Australian writer and feminist.
_Childhood at Brindabella: My First Ten Years_ [written 1952-3, pub. 1963]

Whenever you have truth it must be given with love,
or the message and the messenger will be rejected.
--attributed to Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869—1948)
Indian statesman and leader of the nationalistic
movement against British rule.

My tongue within my lips I rein;
For who talks much must talk in vain.
--John Gay (1685—1732)
English poet and dramatist.
_Fables_, pt. 1 [1727]

Conversation enriches the understanding,
but solitude is the school of genius.
--Edward Gibbon (1737—1794)
English historian.
_The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire_, vol. 3 [1776—1788]

The most important things to say are those which often
I did not think necessary for me to say — because they
were too obvious.
--Andrι Gide (1869—1951)
French novelist and critic; awarded Nobel Prize for Literature in 1947.
Entry of 23 August 1926 in _The Journals of Andrι Gide: 1914—1927_ [1939].

A collection of anecdotes and maxims is the greatest of treasures for
the man of the world, for he knows how to intersperse conversation
with the former in fit places, and to recollect the latter on proper
occasions.
--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749—1832)
German poet, novelist, and playwright.
_Maxims and Reflections_, vol. III [1819]

Our companions please us less from the charms we find
in their conversation than from those they find in ours.
--Fulke Greville (1554—1628)
English philosophical poet.
_Maxims, Characters and Reflections, Critical,
Satyrical, and Moral_, XCVIII [2nd ed., 1757]

One has to grow up with good talk
in order to form the habit of it.
--Helen Hayes (1900—1993)
One of the most popular American stage
actresses of the 20th century.
_A Gift of Joy_ (with Lewis Funke) [1965]

Conversation is the enemy of good wine and food.
--Alfred Hitchcock (1899—1980)
British-born film director.
_Time_ [October 9, 1978]

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Speak clearly, if you speak at all;
Carve every word before you let it fall. . . .
And when you stick on conversation's burrs,
Don't strew your pathway with those dreadful *urs*.
--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (1809—1894)
American physician, poet, and essayist.
"A Rhymed Lesson" [1846]


Talking is one of the fine arts — the noblest, the
most important, the most difficult — and its fluent
harmonies may be spoiled by the intrusion of a
single harsh note.
--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (1809—1894)
American physician, poet, and essayist.
_The Autocrat of the Breakfast-Table_ [1858]


It is the province of knowledge to speak
and it is the privilege of wisdom to listen.
--Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (1809—1894)
American physician, poet, and essayist.
_The Poet at the Breakfast-Table_ [1872]

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Would you like to learn two simple words that are the key to kicking
off conversations? They are the simple words "Tell me." . . . Most people
ask closed questions, those that already contain the answer. This relegates
the other person to confirming or denying what you just said. After a few
of these, the conversation winds down because it has no place to go.
"Did you have fun at the dance?" "Yeah."
"Did you enjoy the ball game?" "It was okay."
End of conversation. . . .
From now, start conversations with the words "Tell me." Say "Tell me
about the dance." "Tell me what the ball game was like." . . . See the
difference? "Tell me" gives people a hook on which to hang a conversation.
--Sam Horn
_What's Holding You Back?_ [1997]

Nothing lowers the level of conversation more than raising the voice.
--attributed to Stanley Horowitz

Don't take up a man's time talking about the smartness of
your children; he wants to talk to you about the smartness
of his children.
--Edgar Watson Howe (1854—1937)
American journalist and author.
_Country Town Sayings_ [1911]

Don't knock the weather. If it didn't change once
in a while, nine out of ten people couldn't start
a conversation.
--attributed to Frank McKinney (Kin) Hubbard (1868—1930)
American humorist.

If you are ever at a loss to support a flagging
conversation, introduce the subject of eating.
--Leigh [James Henry] Hunt (1784—1859)
English essayist, critic, journalist, and poet.
_Table Talk_ [1851]

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It is not sufficiently considered, that men more
frequently require to be reminded than informed.
--Samuel Johnson (1709—1784)
English poet, critic, and lexicographer.
_The Rambler_ [24 March 1750]


I never desire to converse with a man
who has written more than he has read.
--Samuel Johnson (1709—1784)
English poet, critic, and lexicographer.
Entry of 1768 in James Boswell _The Life of Samuel Johnson_ [1791].


There is nothing by which a man exasperates most
people more, than by displaying a superior ability
or brilliancy in conversation. They seem pleased at
the time; but their envy makes them curse him in
their hearts.
--Samuel Johnson (1709—1784)
English poet, critic, and lexicographer.
Entry of 1783 in James Boswell's _The Life of Samuel Johnson_ [1791].

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To listen closely and reply well is the highest
perfection we are able to attain in the art of
conversation.
--Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (1613—1680)
French classical author.
_Maxims_ [1665]


As it is the characteristic of great wits to say much
in few words, so small wits seem to have the gift of
speaking much and saying nothing.
--Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (1613—1680)
French classical author.
_Reflections; or, Sentences and Moral Maxims_ [1678]


One thing which makes us find so few people who appear
reasonable and agreeable in conversation is, that there is
scarcely any one who does not think more of what he is
about to say than of answering precisely what is said to
him.
--Franηois de La Rochefoucauld (1613—1680)
French classical author.
_Reflections; or, Sentences and Moral Maxims_ [1678]

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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine
passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and
say it hot.
--D.H. (David Herbert) Lawrence (1885—1930)
English novelist and poet.
_Studies In Classic American Literature_, ch. II [1923]

A single conversation across the table with a wise
man is better than ten years' study of books.
--Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807—1882)
American poet.
A translation of a Chinese proverb in _Hyperion_ [1839].

If you want to talk, first ask a question, then listen.
--Antonio Machado (1875—1939)
Spanish poet.
Attributed in n Joseph Goldstein
_One Dharma: The Emerging Western Buddhism_, p. 66 [2002].

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She plunged into a sea of platitudes, and with the
powerful breast stroke of a channel swimmer made
her confident way towards the white cliffs of the
obvious.
--W. Somerset Maugham (1874—1965)
English novelist, playwright, and short-story writer.
_A Writer's Notebook_ [1949]


I do not want to spend too long a time with boring
people, but then I do not want to spend too long a
time with amusing ones. I find social intercourse
fatiguing. Most persons, I think, are both
exhilarated and rested by conversation; to me it
has always been an effort.

When I was young and stammered badly, to talk
for long singularly exhausted me, and even now
that I have to some extent cured myself, it is
a strain. It is a relief to me when I can get
away and read a book.

--W. Somerset Maugham (1874—1965)
English novelist, playwright, and short-story writer.
_The Summing Up_, ch. XIX [1938]

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There is, of course, no telling, but the experience of others seems
to indicate that marriage inevitably wears out, if not altogether, then
at least around the edges. I incline to believe that we'd have survived
this letting down without real damage. Marriage is nine-tenths talk,
and up to her last illness we were still amusing each other.
--H.L. (Henry Louis) Mencken (1880—1956)
American journalist and literary critic.
Charles A. Fecher (ed.) _The Diary of H.L. Mencken_ [1990]

[Of Susan Sontag:]
Her journalism, like a diamond,
will sparkle more if it is cut.
--Raymond Mortimer (1895—1980)
English writer and critic.

The newest computer can merely compound, at speed, the
oldest problem in the relations between human beings, and
in the end the communicator will be confronted with the old
problem, of what to say and how to say it.
--Edward R. Murrow [Egbert Roscoe Murrow]
(1908—1965)
American broadcaster and journalist.
Upon receiving the "Family of Man" Award in 1964.

When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe
that you will be able to converse well with this person into
your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory.
--Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844—1900)
German classical scholar, philosopher, and critic of culture.
Attributed in William Safire & Leonard Safir
_Words of Wisdom: More Good Advice_ [1989].

When one told Plistarchus that a notorious railer
spoke well of him, 'I'll lay my life,' said he,
'somebody hath told him I am dead, for he can
speak well of no man living.'
--Plutarch (A.D. 46?—119?)
Greek philosopher and biographer.
_Laconic Apophthegms_, "Of Plistarchus"

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There is but one way I know of conversing safely with all men;
that is, not by concealing what we say or do, but by saying or
doing nothing that deserves to be concealed.
--Alexander Pope (1688—1744)
English poet.
Letter to H. Cromwell, Esq. [28 October 1710].


That character in conversation which commonly passes
for agreeable is made up of civility and falsehood.
--Alexander Pope (1688—1744)
English poet.
_Thoughts on Various Subjects_ [1727]

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Ideal conversation must be an exchange of thought, and
not, as many of those who worry about their shortcomings
believe, an eloquent exhibition of wit or oratory.
--Emily Post (1873—1960)
American authority on social behavior.
_Etiquette_ [1922], as quoted in Robert Andrews
_The Columbia Dictionary of Quotations_ [1993].

Part of the joy of dancing is conversation. Trouble
is, some men can't talk and dance at the same time.
--attributed to Ginger Rogers [Virginia Katherine McMath] (1911—1995)
American actress and dancer.

Not only to say the right thing in the right place, but
far more difficult, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at
the tempting moment.
--George Sala (1828—1896)
English journalist and illustrator.
Attributed in "The Journal of the American Osteopathic Association" [February 1906].

I am not bound to please thee with my answer.
--William Shakespeare (1564—1616)
English dramatist.
"The Merchant of Venice", IV, i [1596—1598]

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I often quote myself; it adds spice to my conversation.
--George Bernard Shaw (1856—1950)
Irish comic dramatist, literary critic, Socialist
propagandist, and winner of the Nobel Prize
for Literature in 1925 [he didn't accept it.]
in _New York Times_ [7 January 1988],
"As Someone Famous Probably Once Said. . . ."


The trouble with her is that she lacks the power of
conversation but not the power of speech.
--attributed to George Bernard Shaw (1856—1950)
Irish dramatist and critic.

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That's as well said as if I had said it myself.
--Jonathan Swift (1667—1745)
Anglo-Irish poet and satirist.
_Polite Conversation_ [1738]


Argument, as usually managed, is the worst sort of conversation.
--Jonathan Swift (1667—1745)
Anglo-Irish poet and satirist.
"Hints on Good Manners"

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The most influential of all educational factors
is the conversation in a child's home.
--William Temple (1881—1944)
English theologian and Archbishop.
_The Hope of a New World_ [1940]


In conversation, humor is more than wit, easiness more
than knowledge; few desire to learn, or think they need
it; all desire to be pleased, or, if not, to be easy.
--Sir William Temple (1628—1699)
English statesman and diplomat.
Attributed in Tryon Edwards (using pseud. Everard Berkeley)
_The World's Laconics..._, p. 52 [1853].


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In fact, nothing is said that has not been said before.
--Terence [Publius Terentius Afer] (c. 190—159 BC)
Roman comic dramatist.
_Eunuchus_, line 41 (Prologue)

What a good thing Adam had — when he said a
good thing he knew nobody had said it before.
--Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (1835—1910)
American humorist, novelist, journalist, and river pilot.
_Notebook_ [2 July 1867]

The secret of being a bore is to tell everything.
--Voltaire (Franηois Marie Arouet) (1694—1778)
French writer and philosopher.
_Sept discours en vers sur l'homme_ [1738]

Ultimately the bond of all companionship,
whether in marriage or in friendship, is
conversation.
--Oscar Wilde (1854—1900)
Anglo-Irish dramatist and poet.
_De Profundis_ [1905]

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badinage [bad-n-AHZH], noun:
Light, playful talk; banter.

confabulation [kon-FAB-yuh-lay-shuhn], noun:
Familiar talk; easy, unrestrained,
unceremonious conversation.

deipnosophist [dyp-NOS-uh-fist], noun:
Someone who is skilled in table talk.

felicitous [fuh-LIS-uh-tuhs], adjective:
1. Well suited or expressed; appropriate; apt.
2. Pleasant; delightful; marked by happiness or good fortune.

germane (adj.)
Suitably related to something, especially something being discussed.

glib [adj. GLIB]
Casual, relaxed, offhand, with a natural feeling.
However, the word often carries an unspoken
implication that the easy manner is a way of
hiding something.

implicit (adj.)
Implied: not stated, but understood in what is expressed

imply (verb) [im-'plI]
To indicate by necessary entailment rather than a direct statement;
to occur as a logical consequence, as a garage implies ownership
of an automobile.
It is the antonym of infer; the speaker implies, the listener infers.

interlocutor [in-ter-LOK-yuh-ter], noun:
Someone who takes part in a conversation,
often formally or officially.

kibitz [KIB-its], verb:
1. To chat; converse.
2. To look on and offer unwanted, usually meddlesome advice to others.

persiflage (noun) ['pκr-sκ-flahzh]
Light, sociable chatter or a superficial, sociable manner of speaking.

raillery [RAY-luh-ree] noun:
1. Good-humored banter or teasing.
2. An instance of good-humored teasing; a jest.

repartee (noun)
Witty talk: conversation consisting of witty remarks

riposte, noun:
1. A quick thrust given after parrying an opponent's lunge in fencing.
2. A quick and effective reply by word or act.

tendentious (adjective) [ten-'den-chκs]
Exhibiting a strong tendency or point of view,
overbearingly didactic or partisan.
Note: Not to be confused with "tendential" which
means simply "relating to a tendency." "Tendential
ideas" are those with a decided point of view but
not an overbearing one. "Tendentious ideas" so
strongly support a tendency as to become repulsive.

tenebrific (adj) [te-nκ-'bri-fik]
Causing darkness, darkening, obscuring, obfuscating.


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